Go to the top of the forum page and on the top left is a button for Mesaages. Click that then click on create message, put in Patty’s name. It should give a list then click on her name and leave a message. I hope that helps.
As people are sending off their cards to their partners, please be aware that we send small cards for a reason. Different countries have different regulations and customs rules. Cards or envelopes that are standard sized letters don't cost anything extra for the person to receive. Larger or more expensive "gifts" may cost the recipient extra money for customs. Please make your cards 5 x 7 inches (12.7 x 17.78 cm) or smaller. Thanks!